I am so happy to announce that my blog has had a face-lift! It was overdue. The funny part of it is, my bloggy friend Amy helped me figure out how to change the layout tonight, although she has MANY more important things to do right now. She is only a few weeks away from flying to Korea to get her precious baby boy. So the conversation tonight was, "Sure, Kelly, I would LOVE to talk to you at 10:00 at night to help you out with your blog... I have NOTHING else to think about right now! Ha Ha.
But I am very appreciative of her and of all the friends I have met online throughout this journey. The friendships that are created through adoption are just one of God's many blessings that we have received throughout this process.
Just wanted to share a verse we just read in our Bible study yesterday that really encouraged me:
Zephaniah 3:17: "The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing."
I am so thankful that our God is in control of this process! As we continue to wait for our baby girl, we know that He is watching her and protecting her. We can't wait to meet her. I must admit, it's getting harder.... the phone could ring at any point now (our home study has been in Korea 7 months now). But we will try our best to be patient!
Monday, March 14, 2011
Monday, January 24, 2011
WAITING...
I've been doing a lot of waiting lately. I have discovered that waiting on God, truly being patient, is very tough. Several points in my life have been turning points in my walk with God, and waiting for our baby girl definitely makes the short list. I am daily reminded that God is in control. There's a part of me that thinks that if I worry about something enough, I can fix it. This is human nature, I know. But in this wait, I have been reminded that God is so much bigger than my circumstances.
We don't even know what her face looks like, but God does. He knows where she is right now. He knows who is holding her, rocking her, feeding her. He is taking care of her, and He loves her more than I do. He has a plan to make something beautiful out of her life, and we are so blessed that he has called us to be a part of it. Somewhere, halfway across the world, she is waiting too. I believe that we are meant to adopt this precious baby girl, wherever she is. And because I know that God is in control, I am at peace.
Don't get me wrong, I still jump most of the time when my cell phone rings these days, since we are getting close to "our time" to get a referral call! But my heart is at peace while we wait.
Meanwhile, here's a few pictures to catch you up on what we've been up to:
Christmas was wonderful! All the boys were really into it, and this was the first year Joshie really understood things. Here he is checking to see if Santa ate his cookies and drank his milk.
On New Years Day, we went to a really cool ranch that is about an hour from our house. It has lots of exotic animals, and the boys had so much fun feeding them. They especially loved getting so close to a giraffe! The emus were a little freaky...they gave me a few nightmares!
We don't even know what her face looks like, but God does. He knows where she is right now. He knows who is holding her, rocking her, feeding her. He is taking care of her, and He loves her more than I do. He has a plan to make something beautiful out of her life, and we are so blessed that he has called us to be a part of it. Somewhere, halfway across the world, she is waiting too. I believe that we are meant to adopt this precious baby girl, wherever she is. And because I know that God is in control, I am at peace.
Don't get me wrong, I still jump most of the time when my cell phone rings these days, since we are getting close to "our time" to get a referral call! But my heart is at peace while we wait.
Meanwhile, here's a few pictures to catch you up on what we've been up to:
Christmas was wonderful! All the boys were really into it, and this was the first year Joshie really understood things. Here he is checking to see if Santa ate his cookies and drank his milk.
Here are the boys on Christmas morning. We had a wonderful day.
On New Years Day, we went to a really cool ranch that is about an hour from our house. It has lots of exotic animals, and the boys had so much fun feeding them. They especially loved getting so close to a giraffe! The emus were a little freaky...they gave me a few nightmares!
Thursday, December 16, 2010
I Guess Snow Days Make Us ALL A Little Crazy...
We had a snow day today. Technically, it was an ice day, but you know what I mean. Of course, these days always seem to fall when Jake is working until 9:00. I was afraid I'd get a little stir crazy, but we had a great day. None of us got out of our pajamas all day, and I even took a short nap (accidentally) with Joshie.
I wanted to post these hilarious pictures of Luke and Max in the midst of, what they have termed, "The Karate Cup." Who knows where they get these titles, but it was very entertaining. As you can see, they were very dramatic. I was directed to be the play-by-play announcer, and it was a free-for-all! Max was declared the ultimate champion, and they both decided that "the karate cup has to become a Christmas tradition." I guess every family has some weird traditions, but really??
I just heard on the news that school is closed again tomorrow. I pray two days in a row won't put us ALL over the edge!
I wanted to post these hilarious pictures of Luke and Max in the midst of, what they have termed, "The Karate Cup." Who knows where they get these titles, but it was very entertaining. As you can see, they were very dramatic. I was directed to be the play-by-play announcer, and it was a free-for-all! Max was declared the ultimate champion, and they both decided that "the karate cup has to become a Christmas tradition." I guess every family has some weird traditions, but really??
Sunday, December 5, 2010
'Tis the Season for Christmas Cards!
For some reason, I've been a bit manic about Christmas this year. Jake and I put up the tree BEFORE Thanksgiving! We had good reasons.... he had to work, we were heading out of town, etc. But by Thanksgiving night we had our outdoor lights up, too. Then, a few nights ago, I decided that I needed to wrap presents. That turned into me wrapping EVERY present I had bought at that point (yes, it took a while). Jake stared at me from the couch with a concerned expression on his face. But he knows better that to stand in my way when I get on a rampage!
Anyway, the one thing I haven't gotten around to yet is the Christmas card. And so you can imagine my excitement when I saw these gorgeous Christmas card designs on my friend Amy's blog. They are from Shutterfly, and there are so many that I really love, it's hard to choose just a few to share. But here are some of my favorites.
I knew there wasn't much chance that we would have our sweet baby girl's referral photo in time to put it on our card, but I was still hoping! I guess there's still a chance, but we have not quite been waiting 4 months and our agency has told us it will be 4 to 6 months before we can expect a referral. But this is still a very special Christmas card, because it's our last card with the 3 boys before baby girl comes into the picture to rock their worlds! I really like the way these three cards from Shutterfly let you put lots of pictures in the mix. With our 3 boys, just one picture somehow doesn't tell the full story... In case you are wondering why I'm telling you so much about our Christmas card, I'm showing you these cards because Shutterfly is offering a promotion to bloggers. They are giving 50 free cards to people who will blog about their cards and show their designs on their blogs. Of course, I am happy to oblige! If you want more information about taking advantage of this great deal, click here: http://bit.ly/sfly2010
To check out Shutterfly's Christmas card collection, you can click on this link: http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-photo-cards You can also check out their other holiday cards at http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/holiday-cards and you can see their calendars (something my family insists we make for them every year) at http://www.shutterfly.com/calendars .
Happy card shopping!
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Camping in the COLD!
We had a great time camping this weekend with our friends Paige and John. It was VERY COLD at night, but the days were beautiful. The boys had a blast. They loved hiking and were really tough- wearing me out! It was nice to have nothing to do but sit looking at the fire. In our over-scheduled life, we don't make enough time to chill out. Here are some pictures of our trip.
At the campground- the boys spent their time playing football,
throwing the baseball, and rolling around in the dirt!
Trail mix at the top of the mountain!
They just hiked an hour to get here.
throwing the baseball, and rolling around in the dirt!
They just hiked an hour to get here.
This one's not from the camping trip, but it was too cute to leave out.
This is Max on his class field trip to the pumpkin patch.
YAY! The I-600A Approval Is In!
I know it's been a while since I've posted anything, but we have passed another little baby step toward getting our daughter home to us. Our I-600A approval letter came on September 23rd. So I guess my fingerprints were good enough. Whew! So glad to be done with that step in the process.
This form is called "Notice of Favorable Determination Concerning Application for Advanced Processing for Orphan Petitioning." It basically means that we have been approved by the US government to adopt an orphan. When we get our referral, we have to file LOTS more paperwork on behalf of our daughter before we can travel to get her. But this is a big step toward that goal.
I think about her every day. I just can't believe that, all the way across the world, our daughter has almost certainly been born. She is lying in a crib somewhere, or being fed, or being rocked to sleep in someone's arms. Unbelievable, and yet it is true. I am so amazed at God's grace. He has placed a love in our hearts for this baby that we have yet to see, and it grows every day. We are so thankful that we have this opportunity, and are praying that God will give us what it takes to be the parents that our baby girl needs. We know that there will be so many issues (some dealing with adoption, some just with life) that we will have to help her navigate through over the years. I feel so inadequate, but thankfully I don't have to rely on myself for this. God is there and He will give us the words to say and the strength and wisdom to be the parents to all of our children that we need to be. So we will continue to trust Him and to WAIT.
This form is called "Notice of Favorable Determination Concerning Application for Advanced Processing for Orphan Petitioning." It basically means that we have been approved by the US government to adopt an orphan. When we get our referral, we have to file LOTS more paperwork on behalf of our daughter before we can travel to get her. But this is a big step toward that goal.
I think about her every day. I just can't believe that, all the way across the world, our daughter has almost certainly been born. She is lying in a crib somewhere, or being fed, or being rocked to sleep in someone's arms. Unbelievable, and yet it is true. I am so amazed at God's grace. He has placed a love in our hearts for this baby that we have yet to see, and it grows every day. We are so thankful that we have this opportunity, and are praying that God will give us what it takes to be the parents that our baby girl needs. We know that there will be so many issues (some dealing with adoption, some just with life) that we will have to help her navigate through over the years. I feel so inadequate, but thankfully I don't have to rely on myself for this. God is there and He will give us the words to say and the strength and wisdom to be the parents to all of our children that we need to be. So we will continue to trust Him and to WAIT.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Fingerprints, Part Two
Today was part two of the fingerprint saga. I went back for my re-do. My right hand is now cooperating, but the left fingers were still difficult to read. The guy who did my prints said it was a toss-up as to whether or not they would be accepted. I'll just have to wait and see.
I just want to get all my ducks in a row so that, when we do receive the referral, we will be able to move forward as quickly as possible. The wait right now is tough but manageable. We don't know our baby yet. We haven't seen her beautiful face. And we have no real idea how quickly or slowly this part will move. When we get the referral, those last few months will be torture! I don't know how we will do it knowing who she is, what she looks like, and so many details about her. We will know that every moment it takes between the referral and our travel call is a moment we aren't with her. But we will get through it with lots of prayers. I just wonder every day if she has been born yet or not.
I'm still afraid to believe it's really happening, if you want to know the truth. I have little journals that I write memories in for all the boys. Just little funny things they say and do, thoughts and feelings I have about them, etc. I bought one for the new baby a long time ago, but I've been afraid to start writing in it. I'm not sure what I'm afraid of. I guess that this adoption won't really happen, that something will happen in Korea or with our agency or with international adoption in general to stop it. But I realize that we have to give this to God. He is in control, and he knows what he wants to do in our lives. We just have to trust and we have to wait.
So I think I'll go write in the journal now. I have to start sometime, right? :)
I just want to get all my ducks in a row so that, when we do receive the referral, we will be able to move forward as quickly as possible. The wait right now is tough but manageable. We don't know our baby yet. We haven't seen her beautiful face. And we have no real idea how quickly or slowly this part will move. When we get the referral, those last few months will be torture! I don't know how we will do it knowing who she is, what she looks like, and so many details about her. We will know that every moment it takes between the referral and our travel call is a moment we aren't with her. But we will get through it with lots of prayers. I just wonder every day if she has been born yet or not.
I'm still afraid to believe it's really happening, if you want to know the truth. I have little journals that I write memories in for all the boys. Just little funny things they say and do, thoughts and feelings I have about them, etc. I bought one for the new baby a long time ago, but I've been afraid to start writing in it. I'm not sure what I'm afraid of. I guess that this adoption won't really happen, that something will happen in Korea or with our agency or with international adoption in general to stop it. But I realize that we have to give this to God. He is in control, and he knows what he wants to do in our lives. We just have to trust and we have to wait.
So I think I'll go write in the journal now. I have to start sometime, right? :)
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